I know all about Leaving the Past behind, Living in the present and keeping my eyes towards the future. Those statements do resonate in my brain as true.
But yesterday, I had a Realization hit me that resonated with me Emotionally. And the emotional side is what has to buy in to believe it, and achieve it!
I flipped over to look at pictures of Jeff on my phone and I stopped myself........a thought hit me ~
Stop Looking Backwards ~ There is Nothing There!
I kept looking at a ghost ~ remembering good times ~ wanting the other parent to help me with Zack ~ and envisioning a partnership.
But that doesn't exist any longer.
I am HERE ~ he is not ~ and if I want a personal relationship, someone to have fun with and possibly help me parent Zack.....I have to look in the present and towards the future!
The Past is Gone......
And again ~ Mentally I know that ~ but emotionally it had to sink into my heart.
It's time to put the ghosts to rest.
WELCOME! I'm Tracey Serebin and I'm SO glad you are here! Having been through the many stages of grief, healing and hope, my prayer is that I can help you use your unique story to access your wisdom, maximize your talents and become the change maker your family and our society needs! Let's be better together!
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